Boyfriend

Do I really treat my boyfriend really bad? Do I really spend a lot of his money? I've been thinking about it since the question was pop into my ask.fm. I felt a little offended in the beginning because this person said why I got myself a poor Malaysian boyfriend. Do you even know about love? No matter what his nationality is, whether he is rich or whether he is good looking, nothing can stop me from loving him. I love him for who he is and he love me for who I am.

To be honest, my boyfriend isn't poor. Just that he don't really like to spend money and he saves a lot. I was really mad that he's insulting and offending my boyfriend without even knowing the truth. 

He stated that I suck all my bf's money as well. I was so mad and sad when this person said this. Honestly speaking, I've asked my boyfriend about this. I asked him to tell me honestly whether I've been spending his money too much, but of course he denied. All I ever know is I've never liked spending my boyfriend's money. No matter if it's my EXs or whoever, I dislike lending money and spending the bf's money.

Whenever my boyfriend and I goes out on a date, I used my own money to buy clothes or necessities. Whenever we goes out to have our dinner, he pay his and I pay mine. And if I'm out of money, I will always remember how much I owe him and I'll always return the amount I owe. I've never like spending my boyfriend's money.

 I used to complain to my friends that I really hate how a couple can go to shopping or restaurants to eat and the guy always pay for the girl. I don't mind if it's once in a blue moon or what, but I've got friends that are like this and I really feel bad for the guy.

Lastly it was a point of me getting angry on little things such as me getting angry with him on everything and even if it's my wrong I would get angry with him. I really don't get it, are you the one in relationship with me? If you don't know what's happening in the relationship, then you shouldn't judge so quickly. I remembered I used to get angry really easily, yes but I'm already a changed person. I really swear upon my life. Whenever we quarrel, yes it gets really intense however, I would still apologize if I'm at wrong. We used to quarrel a lot in the beginning of our relationship, however after both of us are calmed, we would always apologize to one and other for what has happened.Whenever there is a quarrel in a relationship, both parties are always in wrong. That is why both parties MUST apologize. 

We're so much better now, so much less quarrels. We would quarrel maybe let's say one in a month or two. That's pretty okay right? If my boyfriend is unhappy with the relationship with me for being a person who spends too much money or getting angry, then he would have left me long ago in the beginning right? It's been 3 and a half years together with my boyfriend, and we loved one and another more as each day passed.

I can't think of how this anonymous can think that I'm such an evil girlfriend. There are so many things I did for my boyfriend that I just can't mention them in one day. I used to surprised him at the bottom of his house with a big flipboard that wrote how much he meant to me, I still remember it was raining that day and he was so touched that he cried so badly hahahaha. I did a few surprised videos for him, one with memo cards and two of it are me singing to him. How are all these evil, really?

I tried to forget what this anonymous person said, but it kept hanging in my mind and I felt really bad for my boyfriend. And I really think that this person is someone that hangs out with us quite often...